For me i knew i was attracted to women since fifth grade but I didn't give it much thought till middle school like when i started watching porn and focused on the female more it kinda hit me try taking these "are u gay" surveries it kinda helps
I'm pansexual but I only really figured that out after years of deep thinking. I spent a portion of my youth forcing myself into things that I wasn't comfortable with because societal standards and expectations, ya know ¯_(ツ)_/¯
But I realised that I was always going to the same type of people because I thought thats what I was supposed to be aiming for. As soon as I went to people that I actually felt something for, then did it start clicking into place. I also had great friends because gays somehow always band together but a lot of my friends are also straight, they were just cool with everything because they either experimented becayse they didnt want to rule out possibilities or they didnt care lol
Some people know straight away and some of us take years, but its fine. People grow and changing your opinion on things is how you become an adult with an awesome personality. You might decide that you're a lesbian but 2 weeks, months, years later you might change your mind because its not for you. Thats ok.
Take your time, you dont have to be a certain type of person right here, right now.
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This was very helpful and assuring thank you
Yeah like growing up I always thought I was a bit weird and maybe tomboyish but I didn’t think I was into girls or liked them until I got older and started questioning myself but I don’t really put myself out there so I’m not really sure either. Like I always thought I want to have kids one day and get married but I don’t know if I’m in denial or forcing myself to not like girls Bc of the norm. But thank you. Lol I’ve tried the surveys before but they’re not as helpful for me. Haha.
Sis me too!! I was really surprised that I felt no attraction to men but still read bl though it got clear to me that i like reading lgbt+ stories to feel represented not because I'm attracted to their gender
Guys so I’ve never been in a relationship or done none of the dirty and stuff before if u know what I mean but I think I am attracted to guys...I mean tbh I’ve never dated Bc I don’t really care about guys but there was times I think I was physically attracted to a guy but my whole life Bc I don’t really care about relationships I later on felt like I might be attracted to girls and maybe that’s why??.. but how do you know for sure? Or if any of y’all are bi or gay, how did you know? Btw I’m a girl. Been tryna figure out for years but I’m also like an introvert and don’t really wanna go meet people/strangers..