is this actually yaoi ( ik it says shounen ai im hearing two things)

I just want to ask that

yes its yaoi, Ive read all current english chapters on tapas and they do have sex

But it´s not really graphic, is it?

I mean not that explicitly graphic but graphic enough to not be a shounen ai. I mean they censor the dicks like they're invisible? Like the seme was sucking the uke's dick and it looked invisible but you do see them do it in action