nah,its not abusive.You could say it's a complex relationship.Bakugou doesn't hate deku, he's jealous of his success and the fact that he wants to compete deku is a form of respect for him in his own way.Even if deku and bakugou date(never gonna happen but) its never gonna be abusive cuz they respect each other and also deku respect bakugou a lot its canon in the au fantasy song,"because you're my hero" where the singer lisa said its his honest feeling for bakugou UwU
I really dont like uraraka,she seems irrelevant and forced somehow like she's there to be izuku's love interest .But i respect your thing for her.No hate <3
Ps.No hate for ya ships and stuffs.Every ship is beautiful in its own way ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I'm too obsessed with bakudeku. Someone help me T^T