This Comment is underrated. So beautiful....so mature (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
And I agree,idk know what kind of motives i expect or want heesoo to make him do that shit, but something surprising, controversal or just ....new?? Idk really, but I am really excited and nervous because it still can backlash
The part with hyesung is also right and was never or barely spoken out here cause the majority was angry at him for leaving/wanting to leave . But for me it shows that hyesung was reasonable and aware that he isn't in a good position to be a parent( althought he probably thought if it as more selfish point of view than for the child,therefore he made a tantrum like a child himself ) but he wanted the abortion and that was indeed the only reasonable decision...
With him and dojin together raising a child...I wonder how the author wants to develop their characters especially hyesung to make it work
No body is born a parent I think Hye Sung could have done thing right with the emotional support of Dojin. In real life lot of parent have post parthum and that take them days, weeks even month to accept the fact that they have a child and they have to take care of him. And 1,5 parent is not 2 but still more than 1 (If the parent is not acting bad I mean)
Aaa, thank you! (⌒▽⌒)
And yeah, a lot of people were so focused on being angry about the fact the Hyesung wanted to leave, that they never really paid attention to how reasonable he was actually being. He knew that he wouldn’t make a good parent. He knew that he’s irresponsible and sometimes childish, which was why he wanted the abortion. But he ended up keeping the child, which he knew would cause problems because he still wasn’t in any state to raise a child, or carry one.
I’m really wondering how the author is gonna develop the two of them too, since, with the way they are now, it’ll be hard to raise their baby. I’m excited to see how much Hyesung’s attitude will change.
Hyesung is scared and not yet ready to be a parent but you cannot say for sure he wouldn’t become a good parent if he was given a chance. Parenting is a learning process. Some irresponsible people become responsible once they have a child.
I have a friend who became a mom at the age of 16 and she’s a really great mom who raised a well mannered, smart and very respectful son.
Aside from that, I agree with everything.
No one's born a parent. Chances are if he has emotional support (which he is now under the impression he does not have aka.dojin) he will be a decent enough parent. Maybe even a good one later on.
With the way he is now, even with emotional support, he wouldn’t make that good of a parent. He’s still immature and irresponsible, and Heesoo isn’t really helping the situation. In this case, just support isn’t enough, because he did have support from Dojin while he was pregnant, yet he was still acting the same. He doesn’t want the responsibility of a baby. What he needs is some kind of character development, which I hope the author is able to deliver within the next few chapters.
I definitely can’t say for sure that he won’t be a good parent in the future, once everything is settled, but with the way he is currently, he’s not really in any state to raise a child. Right now, he still doesn’t even want the responsibility of a baby. Like you said, he’s scared of the it (he wouldn’t even look at the baby when he had him). He needs to have some kind of development in his character for him to even start his path to being a good parent, otherwise it would just be the same as before.
No, some people are. My sister is. I'm not. I rather die than fall pregnant. The thought of being pregnant is the main reason why I refuse to be a biological parent. I want kids, but grown kids who I can offer emotional and hopeful financial support. But not babies to raise and 'parent.' No, having and raising a child is a job I know I was not born for and no amount of teaching and support will ever change that.
Glad to hear your sister is a great mom. Genuinely hope you tell her that I'm sure it will mean a lot to her. I'm sure tho that it was even for her a learning period and stressful. People learn how to parent, some are more natural than others but there is no such thing as the perfect parent. At any rate thanks to Heesoo we have to wait a while more to know. There are some people that 100% should not parent, but if hyesung was one, no amount of money would stop him from aborting. Also @Kmsing hormone have a huge effect during pregnancy
Im prettt sure OP has no idea about the mother's perspective on giving birth. Either OP os child or young male, because if she was educated and empathetic then she would of course sympathize with someone who was really forced to give birth. And on top of that the mother is given no mental or emotional help with his obvious post partum depression. You have no idea what being a good parent means other than seeing it on TV or from your parents, so why do you feel like you are allowed to judge?
Literally what? At no point did I say that I didn’t feel bad for him or that he deserved this. I clearly stated that the situation is bad and what Heeso’s doing is wrong. It’s not that hard to tell what makes a good parent and what doesn’t. It’s not rocket science. Are you implying that I have to have a child in order to have an opinion on what makes a good parent? If so, that’s ridiculous. I was just saying that, even before this whole situation, he wasn’t emotionally ready to have a baby (yet he was still bribed into giving birth) and because of that, he still had an immature mindset. He still had no sense of responsibility. He really didn’t even want the child. On the inside, he was literally terrified of having to deal with the responsibility of having a kid. I don’t know about you, but to me, those aren’t exactly the qualities that would make a good parent. So, even without the post-partum depression, he wouldn’t make a good parent because of his character and the situation he was forced into. However, as I stated in my other replies, I do think that, with some character development and emotional support, he can learn to be a good parent, even with his flaws.
P.S, I’m a girl who’s step-mother has had two children (both girls, one year apart) and who’s aunt had a miscarriage about two years ago. So, I’d like to think I’m very sympathetic towards young parents and their struggles to adapt to parenting.<3
The only thing I can agree with Heesoo about is the fact that’s Hyesung wouldn’t make a good parent. He has absolutely no sense of responsibility whatsoever. Other than that, Heesoo is completely in the wrong and his logic in the whole situation is so twisted. He knows he’s doing something very wrong, but he keeps telling himself that what he’s doing is the right thing. Though, instead of hating him, I’m more interested. I wanna know more about his motives. I just hope it’s not the typical “I’m jealous, so I’m gonna ruin everything so that I can have him to myself”.