sad? i'm not super arty or anything but i find art 100 times more important then ppl, so yeah what u said is true... but aki dragged him into this kind of place where love has many shapes other than violin , which he wants to get our from so give him some chapters, STILL he is also a human , if aki's love is what something he can't stop then...
Good points
I wish Ugetsu can realize that loving a person shouldn't stray or restrict him from his love of music.
As a person, you can love your job or hobby or talent/gifts and be great at it while still loving other things, like your parents, family, friends, lover...
I mean, you're right, we all are HUMAN and our fundamental nature is to LOVE.
And not necessarily romantic love, it can be any type of form that involves caring for other HUMANS.
ummm, not really ,cuz every one has his own love language, *there is a quiz for it online if u wanna check yours* , even if ugetsu realizes it, why should he go under it, what i'm saying is , it's what ugetsu TRULY wants , either man up and let go of aki or build a warm healthy relationship...
but in a way *and this is my pov* being on a relationship is a hindrance for work or art flow, aki said that ugetsu is a very flow-y and emotional person, so feeling loved messes up his artistic way of life? i really don't know since the boi only shows up in one chapter and goes in 10 different mind sets , let's wait him...
That's restrictive. Does someone have to be single to be a great artist?
Aren't there famous people who are creatives but have spouses and kids?
Writers, perfprmers, scientists, etc.
You can have both. Ugetsu can have both.
yeah there r, but not all fingers on your hand are the same tall...
sorry, hight*
It's like you're promoting an idea or a lifestyle that centers on purusit of 'greatness'.
Kind of like a monk or jedi. It's like an extremist thing.
To me, it's unrealistic and unnecessary.
You can have a boyfriend/girlfriend and graduate a valedictorian
You can be a loving parent and be a top executive.
You can choose to be single but it's not because you're sacrificing your love for a career.
That's what I'm pointing out.
There's no need for 'sacrificing'or giving up on something/someone.
It doesnt mean if you're in love you give up on your art or music or whatever creative outlet.
There's no need to give up or sacrifice.
You can have a lovelife and a career.
There's no need to live a life of isolation and push away or not care for people who come in to your life or who already are in it.
Fictional shounenai character Ugetsu can be a world class violinist and have a hot bassist boyfriend(Aki).
You can too, Be an artist and live in an apartment w/ 3 dogs and a cat and a girlfriend/boyfriend or be single and live with your bestfriend, whatever.
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did u read what i said? ppl r different, while uge wants his music , someone like u want a close person around AND *say music or anything*, all i'm saying that i understand what uge is thinking cuz this toxic relationship with aki is hurting him and u'll c in the next chapters, not only hurting him but also distracting him, uge can be a HSP and/or HCP and if u take sometime looking at his family history , u'll find that him pushing ppl away is a rather good move... it's like how it's for me, i like 2d characters , drawing them and seen them into a manga or anime feels more ok than the real world, these character can never hurt me, talk after me and stuff, so for uge, his music is where he is relaxed, and unhurt, so why would i ever want him to be dragged again with aki? and push him away again or feel uncomfortable around mugs? if aki and him solve this up and talk it real and honest then rebuilding their relationship on a love base not a *run away from my troubles* way like uge did , then and only then he can live in his apartment with 3 dogs and a cat with aki *which in not ganna happen if u read the next chapters*
All is true, I completely agree. But Ugetsu is just not like that, for me it shows that love requires greater strength. Though I didn't feel the other person was necessarily promoting anything particular, maybe she meant that such people also exists. He just made a choice, Aki or music?- for him it's music. And Aki is in love with music more than ugetsu, remember his thoughts?..he was drawn by ugetsu's sensuality, that he completely drowned himself into a puddle of muddy water. Why is he not happy then? It's still not clear, does he still wants to be with ugetsu? He sure sleeps with other men n women? venting it out? or it's just that he's afraid of letting go? or is he hoping things will change? doesn't look like that for ugetsu though. He thinks he needs ugetsu to feel worthy, while all he has to do is to give himself a chance to find something better for him, I don't mean a romantic partner here, but a chance to love himself. There's no point in changing ugetsu, but Aki is the one who has to take the next step. I don't like both these characters really.
wait, how is he thinking of uge well being if *physical violence* is involved?
Sorry,I did not understand your question
'bout aki n ugetsu, * He thinks he needs ugetsu to feel worthy* is what u said, suggesting that aki wants uge to feel better about him self, but the physical violence u talked about in the upcoming chapters....? there is a different in his thought and actions , this is what i'm asking...
No I meant for aki to feel worthy, . They are already contradicting their words with their actions if you really see. Uhmm idk why I'm still investing my energy here haha. You'll see in the coming chapters what happens, there will be a lot of change in the views that time ,as usual to every bl chapter update
oh sorry, my mistake, thought u talked 'bout uge, and yeah will be waiting on needles ><
Maybe the reason why Ugetsu thinks he can't be happy just being with someone he loves(Aki), is because he was raised as a child prodigy. Maybe people who are born and raised as a 'natural genius' or 'gifted', think that they can't really find fulfillment/happiness outside of their goal. They're fixated on being the best or improving more and more to perfection.
To me that's sad.
Unlike our main characters who play music for their soul, maybe Ugetsu plays his violin because he's simply programmed to, like, that that's all what he knows.