I hate that too. And this is so common in yaoi mangas #－.－)
Oh well...
I think it's common in life not yaoi,, yaoi is super romantic and the seme is ready to wait for ever or who jumps right to rape .. however in real life guys always tell their girls that they are leaving them if they don't sleep with them and some girls accept for their partners satisfaction not because they want to,,, I read many many yaoi mangas but this is the first time I see the seme telling the uke if u won't do it we will stay friends
, I mean their is a big difference between friendships and relationships and the difference isn't just sex
He even told him that his just experiencing and other rude things that I really hated
This is so true, almost all my guy friends are like this if the girl is too "troublesome" and by troublesome I mean dont give them easy sex they just move on to an easier one. Also when I was a teenager, many years ago, my friends kept pressuring their girlfriends to do it with them, its just like that. What is sad is that tbh in their minds they dont even have a choice, cause if they dont give in then they just get cheated or dumped. Women have to be strong, they have to say no and if their partner want to leave than let them leave, nowadays women dont need men to pay their bills they can support themselves, I dont know why its so hard for most of them to be "alone" meaning not in a serious relationship with a guy, as long as men have this advantage of not having the need to be in a relationship they will have the upperhand. Its like -> Most Men: "oh you dont wanna fuck with me? Bye them Ill date another girl or screw around since I dont need to be in a relationship" Most Women : "crap, I have to give in since I dont want to be alone, I need a boyfriend" . This has to change. Btw I said Most, meaning its not all of them.
I agree with u ,, girls should want not need men ,, plus they should be real men not boys that want to fuck only without caring about the person they are with or what the girls really want and deserve
I hated when the seme told the uke that if they didn't have sex they will stick to being friends,, i mean can't they just stay lovers and postpone sex till the uke is comfortable enough and ready to do it? I mean the uke isn't really ready but he didn't want to be just a friend that's why he rushed to the seme and was anxious poor uke ,, plus why can't the uke have friends but the seme can!!