I think whenever it comes to cheating. I never blame the 'mistress'/ the other person. The older man is the one in a committed relationship, if he were true then whatever 'another person' does, he will stay true. The uke could do WHATEVER he wants but if the married man was loyal, he wouldn't have strayed. And most mistresses does expect the older man to give up his family. He has already cheated on his wife, he's a disgusting bastard, why wouldn't they expect anything less? Especially during most times the older man would tell them how horrible married life is and how they wish to get away. He(the uke) is not the CAUSE of failed marriages and I always find it stupid that people think that way. It's the married men's ACTIONS that are the cause. If they can't stay true to their marriage vows, then the wives are better OFF without them. Take a crowbat to his balls and wash your hands off men like this. Make sure to get alimony money and suck him dry out of everything he has.
And just for a fetish? Everyone has a TYPE, don't discriminate if some like 'old' 'fat' 'bad boy', just like some girls only go for 'handsome' then some men only go for 'old'. Learn to accept it.
The seme knew when going into the relationship that the uke liked older men. He should have been ready. The uke had until then a strong obsession with older men and is now JUST accepting a younger man. Going beyond his own preference because he LOVES the seme. He needs time to adjust. Because while the uke might have 'looked' he had no intention of doing anything with the older man in the coffee shop. He even went on to say that the SEME would look handsome in a suit because sometimes we want to see our man in something other than a tank top and jeans and because of that the seme went on a rage. Cue rolling of eyes.
In the end, the uke wanted to meet an old professor with his new lover but his new lover went off in a jealous rage for NOTHING I might add and he went on alone. Oh boohoo, he stared at another man, guys do that all the time. Staring at other girls eventhough they have someone else. As long as they do nothing but look, it's not alright but it's not WRONG either. And before the seme even came to the 'rescue', the uke was already prepared to REJECT the old professor who I might add, divorced the wife out of his own accord eventhough it has been a LONG time since he broke it off with the uke. "Could be the cause of failed marriages" Pfft, cheating is some people's way to avoid fixing pre-existing problems in the marriage. Don't blame someone else for failed marriages, blame the person(the cheater) who couldn't keep his penis tucked in his pants or her legs closed.
Another annoying comment from u, I guess "K", dont want to say much. Just imagine ur husband in bed with a woman and see who to blame. Obviously, they're both at fault. Or r u some kind of mistress too? Doubt it, from what see from ur long and meaningless posts, the guy who dates u would have a lot of work cut out for him. Good luck find a guy (and a real life).
I wish I listened to the comments of how bad the uke is instead of how hot the seme is. I agree that making your lover insecure is the worst kind of lover but everyone seems to miss the point that he is involved in many cheating relationships. He acts like a victim but let not forget he could be the cause of failed marriages. Idk what he expects, those old men break their families to be with him or this cheating things going on forever. Either one is bad. And all that is just for a fetish.
I also dont see his love for the seme at all. He just needs him since hes a needy person. He never really acts considerate about the seme. "Me and my ex have a dinner just 2 of us. Ur crazy for being jealous" wow, how I hate his guts.