i didn't miss it, that's my point - it's sad so many people associate this type of content with bdsm that a disclaimer is needed to clarify how this physical abuse is not a form of bdsm like duh
the story & characters are fictional, abuse is not, i'm not hallucinating here, i am just objectively calling it these scenes what they are
if you read a book about a murder, it's normal to call the murder a murder and the killer a killer, nobody actually belives that those would suddenly manifest in real life, people are just using the right terminology
yet i've seen so many yaoi readers act as if the term "abuse" and it's definition stop existing when the discussion is about a fictional story
yes, i am not gonna read it anymore as stated above
lmao, how should i have know if i would like it or not if i didn't read it first ???
there is nothing wrong with trying something, not liking it and sharing your experience/ opinion on a public platform lol
gosh it's so upsetting to see people call this bdsm, when there hasn't been a single proper bdsm thing in here
yes he caressed his marks after spanking him AGAINST HIS WILL
yes he offered a safe word but it was way too late, it being a kiss is just absurt and he never once respected it as a safe word anyway
that's not even bad bdsm representation, that's just a dude who like to assault people and think he found an excuse
it's even sadder to think about how people in rl like this actually exist and give us doms such a bad reputation