pls recommend bl where they're both chill/stoic/nonchalant/the quiet type, i got curious i...

I'm not sure if I have understood correctly, but I think these ones have the dynamics that you're looking for

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_ll_be_here_for_you_19/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/palace_of_bardo/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/december_rain/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_beast_must_die/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dearest_sm_scan/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shutline/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/flip_the_script/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dreadful_night/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/lifeless_man/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_to_natsu_no_naka/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_no_yoru_ni_fureru/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/come_to_hand/
I dont think they have the same personality per se, but I do think they are both the quiet type, I guess...

i'll check these out, thank you!

thank you too! i'll check these out as well