I know it's difficult and all to be rejected and especially if you're gay but as a person who has been on the recieving end of a confession from a friend...things get awkward and weird. It's a bit disturbing and eventhough you want not to hurt your friend you can't help it because ultimately one needs to be open about it. Of course violence is stupid but about growing distance? It was inevitable for me. Knowing that a person has feelings for you and being 'friends' with them? Shit's bad for you and your friend. But also in my case she was clingy and blamed me for everything so yeah I never needed a toxic friend anyways.
I know it's difficult and all to be rejected and especially if you're gay but as a person who has been on the recieving end of a confession from a friend...things get awkward and weird. It's a bit disturbing and eventhough you want not to hurt your friend you can't help it because ultimately one needs to be open about it.
Of course violence is stupid but about growing distance? It was inevitable for me. Knowing that a person has feelings for you and being 'friends' with them? Shit's bad for you and your friend. But also in my case she was clingy and blamed me for everything so yeah I never needed a toxic friend anyways.