let's clarify here, black haired seme also basically raped the uke the first time
Did he? I’ll have to go back and read
ch 11 mainly, uke says stop but seme keeps going.
to be fair, you're correct that red hair is more pushy, but neither of them are wholly innocent.
Yeah I just re read it. I mean, he shoulda stopped when he told him to but idk if i’d call it rape. I mean, he asked him to come over and sleep with him and they were in the middle if it, right? Idk. Def not as bad and forcing someone in a car
It’s just weird that with the red haired, not only is the uke acting like the rape didn’t happen, but the author seems to treat it as him just being a jerk I guess? And the fans too?
not sure how long you've been reading yaoi, but this happens quite frequently. you kinda get used to it by just lowering your standards, but i draw a hard line between anything i read and real life (just to be clear)
with bl, everything feels more emotionally taunt so it gets difficult for fans and authors to create situations where something like sex would happen when there's a character that may not be down for it yet; but the story needs to progress and the ml's competing for mc need to be even. it's very complicated...
Yeah I know it’s common, but I still don’t like it
No matter what, I can’t forgive the red haired seme since he basically raped him