Someone said this part and I agree: “This was gonna happen eventually. The fact that he views sex as an act between lovers while yoo gon views it as his work. But I think we’re in agreement here that neither are in the wrong in this argument. MC thought he understood it but realized deep down he doesn’t accept it as much as he thinks he did. He should’ve trusted his partner more and realize that yoo gon wouldn’t sleep with the douchebag knowing their history, even if it was his job. And like yoo gon said, he’s turned down clients before. Yoo Gon’s fault here is not telling MC his reasons why he’s not willing to quit. This needs to be addressed if they both want to continue in the relationship.”
I understand why some people are upset that MC (black haired uke) changed his mind kinda and was like: Could you quit a part of your job?
See, he didn’t say quit his job alone, just the sex part but he can continue stripping. And if I remember correctly, he’s not in debt or anything. MC also asked ML why he needs to do sex if he doesn’t need anything from it. And ML just shut him off and kicked him out. In a relationship, imo, I think both partners should be compassionate with each other and compromise somewhat.
If your partner isn’t feeling the same anymore about some part of your job, in this case, I’d say compromise if it’s NOT hurting your financial stability or anything.
Clearly ML doesn’t seem to need Wes work but he does it anyways, doesn't express himself much and to MC it feels like he’s the only one opening up more. (Not saying that ML has to open up right now, but how long can one wait?)
There are many partners of sex workers and Vice versa that have changed their mind. So it’s not that big of a deal in my opinion, I’m used to seeing this happen.
But I do think ML reacted a bit too strongly, but his reactions were valid, just too over it. And it doesn’t help that he’s going to MC’s weird brother and working there possibly when he knows MC will feel betrayed by it.
So both are in the wrong. Both should communicate, this isn’t a one party situation.
Someone said this part and I agree:
“This was gonna happen eventually. The fact that he views sex as an act between lovers while yoo gon views it as his work. But I think we’re in agreement here that neither are in the wrong in this argument. MC thought he understood it but realized deep down he doesn’t accept it as much as he thinks he did. He should’ve trusted his partner more and realize that yoo gon wouldn’t sleep with the douchebag knowing their history, even if it was his job. And like yoo gon said, he’s turned down clients before. Yoo Gon’s fault here is not telling MC his reasons why he’s not willing to quit. This needs to be addressed if they both want to continue in the relationship.”
I understand why some people are upset that MC (black haired uke) changed his mind kinda and was like: Could you quit a part of your job?
See, he didn’t say quit his job alone, just the sex part but he can continue stripping. And if I remember correctly, he’s not in debt or anything. MC also asked ML why he needs to do sex if he doesn’t need anything from it. And ML just shut him off and kicked him out. In a relationship, imo, I think both partners should be compassionate with each other and compromise somewhat.
If your partner isn’t feeling the same anymore about some part of your job, in this case, I’d say compromise if it’s NOT hurting your financial stability or anything.
Clearly ML doesn’t seem to need Wes work but he does it anyways, doesn't express himself much and to
MC it feels like he’s the only one opening up more. (Not saying that ML has to open up right now, but how long can one wait?)
There are many partners of sex workers and Vice versa that have changed their mind. So it’s not that big of a deal in my opinion, I’m used to seeing this happen.
But I do think ML reacted a bit too strongly, but his reactions were valid, just too over it. And it doesn’t help that he’s going to MC’s weird brother and working there possibly when he knows MC will feel betrayed by it.
So both are in the wrong. Both should communicate, this isn’t a one party situation.