thankyou for saying this I'm usually the type to be biased towards the fl but this time I'm really confused by her actions she's basically forcing him to open up without caring about his emotions I get she has trauma but so does he? and the Sister in law has no damn excuse for abandoning her son like that then coming back years later and acting so entitled
yeah i get both u and OP's point.
what i would say in behalf of MC though is even though her initial intentions at finding the truth feels like meddling, i think she still has the right to know bc this kind of thing /does/ involve her, like any other women bc even though the sis-in-law was most likely projecting, it's still a horrible thought to have esp for women that lived in that family, whom so many have died and whom they risked their lives for.
the MC already died countless times for the family, selphie and the ML wants the MC to stay in the family, selphie calls the MC her mom, and the ml wants to be romantically involved with mc— for me, if these are not good enough reasons for her to be involved in family matters, then what would be? it's like she's doing so much /for/ the family and she /is/ family but only until the moment comes when they want to take away her right to know family matters they don't want her to know, most probably the same matters and secrets she already died for.
But this was not really the way to do it and how she is trying to have all of them rekindle their relationship, that’s why i called her pushy and overstepping ml’s boundaries. No one is saying that she doesn’t deserves to know about this stuff but at least she could’ve waited a bit and let ml tell her himself. It was clear that ml felt uncomfortable with sil. And the thing which pissed me off the most was how she believed this woman she met once who abandoned her son over her damn husband.
Also why is no one asking for celphi’s opinion? What is his opinion on this ? Does he even want this ?
But again sil has never shown any concern for her own son and that should’ve answered mc. In the novel that was how it went. This is why i feel like she is projecting hard and feel disappointed with her.
the lack of trust makes me feel frustrated af. ( from both side )
Also sorry if i sound aggressive or offensive. I hope you are having good day ahead (⌒▽⌒)
yeah but I'm not saying she should not interfere at all but her way of going about it is way too aggressive and insensitive and she seems pretty inconsiderate and I still dont get how her knowing the truth has anything to do with the family reconciling with the sister in law when both parties involved dont feel comfortable it's like she's forcing them to get along
if disagree then i apologise.
i don’t like this arc or whatever. Kinda disappointed with mc. Also what if the sil still acts the way she is and doesn’t want to do anything with them ? then what ? What if she still continues or doesn’t bother listening to ml? Also i felt like mc was overstepping or being pushy in these arcs. Of course ml is also at fault and has issues but in the end both of them don’t really trust each other which is something that kinda frustrates me.
Also if the roles were reversed people would be hating on theo and calling mc a saint or something. ( not all but yeah)
Also doesn’t mean that i hate mc or ml , i just wish that they start to trust each other a bit and all. Cause if not then in the end we will only see this happening again and again.
Also i am getting bored of this manhwa like the plot is just not progressing. Just my opinion.
And i don’t like the sister in law , You all can give her the damn sob story and all but until she gets a good redemption arc then no , but i have my doubts if she get one.