Changing jobs is too far. Best thing is to make clear boundaries and stop involving his personal life with his work. He shouldn’t say anything about his partner to his boss he just met. Shizuma isn’t perfect, nor is Minato, they’re both human beings with quite the normal emotions and reactions.
It’s just more intense with Minato due to his trauma. I wish they spoke about that more than just moving on.
And Minato isn’t even telling him to quit his job. He even refused to when Shizuma told him to ask him for time off from work. I think his abandonment issue trauma just got to him at the moment. And he thinks the boss is a woman, so he’s more jealous since Shizuma was straight before.
If my boyfriend kept annoying me because of his senseless jealousy towards my BOSS, where I can't even see where the problem lies, I would have already broken up. If my boyfriend tried to force me to have sex out of jealousy and still hurt my hands, I would have already broken up. If my boyfriend was always so demanding and annoying about everything, but when it comes to my birthday he completely forgets, and is still cold towards me, I would have already broken up. Shizuma is perfect in my opinion, I would never have as much patience with a childish boyfriend like his. Good for Minato who found someone to put up with his paranoia.
The problem is the lack of clear boundaries and involving his personal life with work. Minato is clearly aware of his own issues and called himself childish so I’m sure he’s feeling guilty about doing this.
And the boss is definitely in the wrong for overstepping boundaries and talking shit about someone else’s partner to which Shizuma told him off, thankfully.
I am not saying Minato isn’t wrong though. He is wrong, he is bratty and immature, and he admitted all that. He has trauma and while it isn’t an excuse to hurt another, it’s an explanation to why he’s like this. And I expected them to speak about this more but it just got cast aside
And I kinda see what you’re trying to say?
Shizuma isn’t perfect because he is human. Humans can never be perfect. Maybe for a short time, but never a lifetime. But to others he may be and that’s valid.
I do think Minato is lucky to have a green flag boyfriend who’s patient. Unfortunately this is something others should expect when dating someone who’s mentally not right or just dealing with unresolved trauma.
Shizuma being patient is going to help Minato.
I thought you knew that I said that Shizuma is perfect in a non-literal way, maybe I have to use tags to express what I'm saying because I think you have some difficulty understanding non-literal things. The real problem with the manga is the boss, and people treat it like it's Shizuma. Shizuma didn't do anything wrong, in periods of experience the right thing to do is to flatter the boss so as not to be fired in the first 3 months of work, everyone who works knows this.
Or Shizuma can just not talk about his personal life when it isn’t necessary at work. Saying Shizuma didn’t do anything wrong isn’t true considering he’s let the boss overstep his boundaries.
And I’m aware the real problem is the boss, but let’s not forget it’s also Minato’s trauma that’s causing problems. You won’t be fired for not talking about your personal life, trust.
And if it’s about pleasing, then Shizuma wouldn’t have told the boss off.
You know I didn't say that the whole reason Shizuma talked to her boss was because of the work itself, but honestly, it's difficult to talk to someone who has these problems with understanding and interpreting. Please be aware of this condition of yours before entering into an argument next time.
I didn’t say you said that the whole reason Shizuma talked to his boss was because of the work itself. I was just adding to the discussion.
I've already said it and I'll say it again, most people who don't like this story are because they're used to uke having his feet kissed by all the men who appear in the story. This work is the same as always, just with the seme in place of the uke. now we have a jealous uke who is trying to hold on to seme with tooth and nail, it's different. And as for those who don't like Shizuma in the story, I ask, why? what should he do? he even suggested changing jobs and is now firmly avoiding his boss when he realized how much it bothered Minato, Shizuma is too perfect.