Why do y'all hate when the uke is straightforward? He's not crossing any boundaries, he's ...

Why do y'all hate when the uke is straightforward? He's not crossing any boundaries, he's not stalking anybody, he's just pinning for the ml??? The Ml didn't express any discomfort whatsoever with the mc. The mc is just being straightforward with his feelings and for some reason thats so hard to understand. Look, I get the second hand embarrassment, but calling him a creep or a fool is just crazy. You guys expect him to just do nothing and sit there looking pretty? Let him get his man!!