Ngl now that I reread it I realised that blondie has actually only bottomed twice. I hope the author makes another volume where he starts to bottom more and be comfortable with it, just like how black hair is also more dominant leaning he learned to give in to his partner’s needs (way more than he needs to) that it can feel unfair. I get the whole “top headspace” thing but isn’t it unfair that only black hair has to give in to blondie when he’s done that for YEARS? Relationship is a 50/50 if blondie has now know his partner prefers to be dominant he should at least learn to give in more if he wants both of them to be satisfied and have their desires fulfilled or compromised. The end does show him slowly opening up to it but still being in denial, I hope he actually softens up the way black hair did.
Ngl now that I reread it I realised that blondie has actually only bottomed twice. I hope the author makes another volume where he starts to bottom more and be comfortable with it, just like how black hair is also more dominant leaning he learned to give in to his partner’s needs (way more than he needs to) that it can feel unfair. I get the whole “top headspace” thing but isn’t it unfair that only black hair has to give in to blondie when he’s done that for YEARS? Relationship is a 50/50 if blondie has now know his partner prefers to be dominant he should at least learn to give in more if he wants both of them to be satisfied and have their desires fulfilled or compromised. The end does show him slowly opening up to it but still being in denial, I hope he actually softens up the way black hair did.