"We like people because of their virtues, but we love them in spite of their flaws." My dearest friend taught me this. He loved me when I was at my best and he loved me even more when I was at my absolute worst. His love encouraged me to change and be the best person I could be. Where would people like Yuudai and me be without people like them? I got lucky and married him. Maybe in some distant future yaoi-land Yuudai and Momo can do the same.
This is so nice and so true. People tend to forget sometimes that we can be more flaws than virtues, all thats needed is the will to change and the one you lve not to give up.
Beautifully said.
Thank you :)
If you mean by flaws being a rapist, beater, homophobe among others things then you are out of reality. Anyone can be full of flaws but this is different. This is like encourage domestic violence by the mistaken thought that love can change anything. I know this is a culture that is still very present even in developed countries in some rural areas but please don't be blind to this reality.
^what she said
There is a reason why criminals and drug addicts still have families and lovers. It's not because love can change everything, it's because when you know what someone is really made of, no matter how nasty their actions are, you can't help but hope that this person will still make that change towards the right direction. Sometimes it's hopeless, sometimes it's not but the reality is humankind is more trauma and twisted, at least one person you like is someone that will most likely be one who needs to start working on himself and change his ways and is up to you to decide to stay or to move on.
Again, beautifully said. Something tells me that you've been down this road and have seen good results. So have I. People can change, but they have to want to. A loved one can be what makes them want to. I wish you the best now and in the future.
Thank you, I haven't really been down that road, it's mostly that I've accepted who they are and the pace at which they want to change. I also wish you the very same, it was very nice of you to say that(≧∀≦)
Im really crying for the "Goodbye, Mister" story. Ahhh...someone that could accept such person,,,i feel that too! That made me cry..:'( im glad its a happy ending.
Yuudai just doesnt want to admit that he fell for a guy, i think. And when the time that he said,"a guy who doesnt like men but still stayed with one man for four years..." i say in those situations(especially like that) words are needed to convey the feelings. Coz yuudai is being rough to momo,with those insults and violence, someone of course will never get the feelings of being like.(and only during the sex they could see eye to eye)...thats why it needs to be heard...oh well, actions and words are better together.
I want to peek to the lovey dovey-living-together-life of the two couples. :)