The seme is young, hot, smart and sociable. Of course he has a lot of exes and hook ups. If I were him, I would too! Of course it will be hard on the insecure uke. But that is something the uke needs to work out on his own. The seme can reassure him all day, but until the uke learns to not only trust the seme but accept the fact that he IS good enough for the seme, no amount of reassurance from the seme will matter. It can and probably will cause a lot of problems in their relationship.
The seme is young, hot, smart and sociable. Of course he has a lot of exes and hook ups. If I were him, I would too! Of course it will be hard on the insecure uke. But that is something the uke needs to work out on his own. The seme can reassure him all day, but until the uke learns to not only trust the seme but accept the fact that he IS good enough for the seme, no amount of reassurance from the seme will matter. It can and probably will cause a lot of problems in their relationship.