Responses
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blaze_out/
~ Hasn't exactly reached that stage of "why am I so annoyed" and also the bottom wants to hurt the top so it's what you asked for just roles switched
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/crossing_the_line_1/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/don_t_mix_business_with_pleasure/
The above two are exactly what you asked for
bl/yaoi stories like netkama punch where the seme/top wants to annoy or hurt the uke/bottom but when the uke/bottom actually starts acting distant and all they're like "why am i so annoyed? This is what i wanted." And just yk FALL IN LOVE HARD