This is very true. As someone who practices BDSM, I don’t actually know anyone else into bdsm who doesn’t also deal with pain (either giving or receiving it). Sometimes you can overstimulate with pleasure instead but the end result is pain from too much pleasure so it’s hard to separate the two.
I'm surprised people actually understood what I was trying to get across Thanks for a better explanation.
You got it across pretty well yourself! I’m just glad there are people who understand the BDSM community and the fact that pain and pleasure are two sides of the same beautiful coin!
I am an amateur of BDSM, but I sooo want to be dominated by someone who knows what they're doing!
Honestly this is the hardest thing to find. There are a lot of “alpha males” but “alpha” and “controlling” doesn’t mean “dominant”. I’m personally a switch with a preference for sub which is exactly how I know most “doms” are not doms at all. I hope you eventually find your perfect dom! If you go to Reddit, they have a subreddit for advice. I saw a dating site they were talking about on there once but I was in a relationship at the time. Maybe try to search for it there? Apparently it’s vetted as only for BDSM.
Thank you!
RIGHTT some people here don’t understand how bdsm works which makes me sad cuz some are saying that Silas are manipulating Arthur
People are complaining about the sex being hurtful. It's called rough sex. It's supposed to hurt as much as it feels good. You pain before you feel pleasure that's why you blend the two. But it's probably my opinion but bdsm without the pain in pleasure feels unrealistic. Some people like those expressions. But again it could only be me