I feel like most people just didn't expect it to be SO badly of a noncon bc most noncon in BL is not as rough and the bottoms always look like "they like it even if they didn't want it" but here you have a crying mess of a bottom who looks like he's having a panic attack all the time combined with a top who cares zero fucks and it's just ruthless so I can understand why it can be so uncomfortable for some
Okay then we're almost not reading the same comic I feel lol But I see your perspective. The bottom makes me more uncomfortable than the top, or rather, his actions. The top isn't actually cold and "ruthless" at all usually, though this current scene he seemed particularly harsh in his words (and I won't argue the safeword thing). Like I've never seen a conditional relationship in a comic where they have aftercare and work their way up to sex. *It doesn't make it any less shady due to the power imbalance,* but I've unfortunately seen so much worse in comics WITHOUT the nonconsensual theme right in the premise. Maybe I'm jaded but if not for the bottoms constant tears these scenes are incredibly mild at best.
I'll admit ruthless was not the best word to describe him tbh and personally I also think the top is not that bad. I was saying that's how people see him
But I mean the main reason why people think that way is BECAUSE of the bottom, like yea the dynamic doesn't seen that bad until you see how unwilling and afraid he is meanwhile the top is completely unfazed
(Unrelated but if you want a story where there's consent, aftercare and build up I have some to recommend u)
Some are more abt dynamics than kinks just so u know
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/utsukushii_yasai/ (this is my personal favorite, it's not well known and doesn't have tags of bdsm/s&m but is a rllh healthy s&m dynamic)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/chou_to_hana_no_kankeisei/ (S&M)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ai_subeki_sadist/ (dominant bottom, masoquist top)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/junai_drop_out/ (is not actually bdsm but kinda kinky, also all stories from this author are SO good &cute)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/my_partner_s_tastes_and_fetishes/ (bdsm, pre-established safeword)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kabukichou_bad_trip/ (doesn't have a lot of smut but it's a rlly healthy s&m dynamic)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/motto_musunde_aite_waya/ (bondage)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sugar_to_mustard/ (light S&M)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/simplified_pervert_romance/ (S&M, it's pretty light but the story itself it's SO good)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hitomebore_shita_hito_ga_do_m_datta_mono_de/ (bdsm, bottom is rope artist & top is inexperienced but a natural sadist)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/alien_in_my_closet/ (light bdsm, safeword, a masoquist makes a deal with an alien, rlly sweet)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/our_future_cheok_kong/ (light bdsm, 2nd couple starts w dubcon)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yoru_wa_tomodachi/ (S&M, bottom is an extreme masoquist, the story is kinda odd tbh)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/love_cycling_1/ (light bdsm, masoquist bottom, top kinda just places him(?)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_boss_in_the_bedroom/ (bdsm, s&m, masoquist boss & sadist subordinate. Also heavy on the piss kink)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/nitta_kun_chuuihou/ (light bdsm, scary delinquent (masoquist) & shy classmate (sadist))
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koisuru_sadistic_service/ (s&m, no toys, famous artist & bartender)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/midnight_sadistic/ (S&M, mafia boss (sadist) & his subordinate (masoquist))
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/aporia/ (the healthiest bdsm manhwa I've ever read, just perfect)
Dom/sub verse:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_no_ahimoto_de_ai_wo_shiru/ (not rlly kinky. The top teaches the bottom abt dynamics from 0)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/collar_kiss/ (novelist & babysitter, also not kinky but very sweet)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shacho_osuwari_no_jikan_desu/ (boss sub & secretary dom. Anything from this author is consensual and kinky)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ore_no_sub_o_abaku_na/ (sub is a host and gets with the dom to satisfy his needs)
This ones start with dubcon/noncon but end up pretty healthy
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sex_drop/ (proud gay playboy bottom & closeted mysterious top)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sm_gokko/ (two strangers, sadistic top & inexperienced bottom)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sakurada_senpai_kaizou_keikaku/ (top is a sadistic queen who gets revenge on the his all bully (bottom))
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oni_to_tengoku/ (light bdsm, masoquist bottom. Teacher xteacher)
Commenters who went into this comic knowing it's theme is meeting for kink/sex NONCONSENSUALLY due to an unfair work agreement: Ewww I'm so nauseous this is so nonconsensual
Me: *looks at camera like I'm on The Office*
Ps those pointing out the safeword was useless are valid tho like why have it if you're not going to uphold it