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DominatrixSS September 28, 2023 7:15 pm

Some You need to separate BL from Real life, or you will get triggered/upset all the time (especially if you like reading BL with smut)

BL is toxic. I won't deny that.

You can hate a character, you can like a character and later on hate that character, you can start liking the character you previously hated , that's perfectly okay and understandable.

but the minute you start comparing BL to real life situations it will upset you. I know cause I did it int he past. But you learn to separate the two

In BL abuse is forgiven, grape is forgiven, when things like that happened in real life, of course the perpetrator should be locked up, of cause the victim should never forgive that person unless they wanted to on their own terms and of course I understand it's not always so black and white in real life, but the point I'm making is that abuse, grape ect is not romantized in real life.

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    Silent Lucidity September 28, 2023 8:02 pm

    This is really on point. I don't know; maybe like grief, there are stages of being able to separate fiction from reality. Maybe some are just unwilling to do it because using a fictional scenario to support their fight against injustices gives them a sense of control over things that are difficult to control in real life

    notTexas September 28, 2023 8:09 pm

    Finally. Thank you.

    nis September 28, 2023 8:09 pm

    girlie dear this has crossed rape porn. But as you do to each their own

    josiah September 28, 2023 8:11 pm

    and it shouldn’t be allowed in BL fiction either. this is not something that should be romanticized. this is not something we should “just be okay with because it’s not real” the author deserves to be bashed and this story as well. why? because most BL readers are 14 year old girls who then will think that this type of relationship is okay. and develop a sense of desire and think this is normal in their own personal relationships. none of this okay. INCLUDING in BL.

    DominatrixSS September 28, 2023 9:09 pm
    and it shouldn’t be allowed in BL fiction either. this is not something that should be romanticized. this is not something we should “just be okay with because it’s not real” the author deserves to be b... josiah

    I feel like you missed the point of my post

    Torakaze September 28, 2023 9:57 pm
    and it shouldn’t be allowed in BL fiction either. this is not something that should be romanticized. this is not something we should “just be okay with because it’s not real” the author deserves to be b... josiah

    This is a bad argument point. I think those who started that, don't understand those 14-year-old girls who know these relationships are not okay. it is just an entertainment. AND YOU KNOW IT. SO does everyone else that use that

    Silent Lucidity September 28, 2023 11:00 pm
    I feel like you missed the point of my post DominatrixSS

    I feel like they proved the point of mine

    Silent Lucidity September 28, 2023 11:03 pm
    This is a bad argument point. I think those who started that, don't understand those 14-year-old girls who know these relationships are not okay. it is just an entertainment. AND YOU KNOW IT. SO does everyone ... Torakaze

    I would like the link for the stats of BL readers being mostly 14 year-old girls. Also, you're correct-- 14 year-old girls are smarter than they give them credit for

    Manhwaspicy September 28, 2023 11:16 pm
    and it shouldn’t be allowed in BL fiction either. this is not something that should be romanticized. this is not something we should “just be okay with because it’s not real” the author deserves to be b... josiah

    If this type of content shouldn't be allowed in Bl Fiction, then murder also shouldn't be allowed. Slasher films shouldn't be allowed, tragedy shouldn't be allowed. So many things shouldn't be allowed too.

    People enjoy content like this. It's not because they are okay with it happening in real life. No one should be okay with that. Except if you're uneducated or a psycho.

    People simply enjoy the thrill of this type of content. Toxicity brings out that drama we never get to see in real life. This is why it's called fiction, it gives us readers the chance to read things that don't exist irl, and it gives us the chance to escape reality.

    14-year-olds wouldn't be allowed to read this on the main app, they might not even have any source or money to pay for the chapters. You're forgetting this is an illegal site and anyone can discover things, so don't blame it on the author. 14-year-olds can have the money to buy those chapters but the problem would also come from the parent/guardian who doesn't monitor what these children do. Don't blame that on the author.

    Everyone should be educated on these types of things and nothing should be blamed on the author because it is they who refused to read the content that is best suitable for them.

    Go read some fluff if you're not comfortable, the author already gave a warning at the beginning of the book that this is gonna be toxic.

    DominatrixSS September 29, 2023 5:42 am
    If this type of content shouldn't be allowed in Bl Fiction, then murder also shouldn't be allowed. Slasher films shouldn't be allowed, tragedy shouldn't be allowed. So many things shouldn't be allowed too.Peopl... Manhwaspicy

    I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF

    PREACH IT

    THIS THIS THIS

    Insert Fire Emoji

    Mi Amore Anon September 29, 2023 6:30 am
    and it shouldn’t be allowed in BL fiction either. this is not something that should be romanticized. this is not something we should “just be okay with because it’s not real” the author deserves to be b... josiah

    As someone who started to read this about 14 years old, I knew they were “realistic”. They were so realistic I kneed my first boyfriend in his jewels and avoid him until this day when he forced himself on me. Too bad my first kiss went to a creep. Then my second boyfriend I make sure he treats me right or I walk off. He said something stupid to me and I walked away. Imagine that! Reality don’t fit to your lies.

    None of your comment is okay.
    Most of BL readers are not 14 years old. Most of them don’t think it is okay. They don’t develop a sense of desire or think this normal for their relationships. The author should not be bashed. The story should not be bashed either. Your idea should be. You believe in lies.

    Mi Amore Anon September 29, 2023 6:31 am
    If this type of content shouldn't be allowed in Bl Fiction, then murder also shouldn't be allowed. Slasher films shouldn't be allowed, tragedy shouldn't be allowed. So many things shouldn't be allowed too.Peopl... Manhwaspicy

    MangaSanctuary September 29, 2023 11:33 am

    So, it's okay as long as it's fiction, yaoi? LOL

    I think we know all here that's fiction, that's not really the point.
    THE PROBLEM IS THE POOR TREATMENT such plot get most of the time.
    How things will develop and resolved, and to know the intentions and motivations of the characters is important.
    If the Uke just falls for Seme (like Dan starts to do with JK) because he's handsome despite all the raping - without any real reason, then that's BS.
    From which POV the story is told can help the readers to understand better a characters, and here since it's neither from Dan's or JK, many people are angry with what's JK does to the doc.
    The story can be dark, toxic, rapey, psychological... I think most yaoi readers can read these, but this kind needs to be handled carefully by the writer/author and with a minimal of common sense, if not it'll be nothing but funny and poorly written plot.
    Uke can fall in love with Seme even if their relationship is toxic, but HOW and WHY this happens is essential to appreciate a story in whole.
    Without this, we'll get more and more poorly written BL since authors and the young generation of authors can think it's okay to write poor plots

    DominatrixSS September 29, 2023 11:45 am
    So, it's okay as long as it's fiction, yaoi? LOLI think we know all here that's fiction, that's not really the point.THE PROBLEM IS THE POOR TREATMENT such plot get most of the time.How things will develop and ... MangaSanctuary

    I'm not gonna reply to everything but I will say this it's very obvious Dan is not just falling for Jaekyung for his looks. Despite his terrible attitude Jaekyung has helped Dan many times.


    He feels indebted, Perhaps Dan is confusing this with liking him

    Feeling are alot more complex, some people don't always realize what they are truly feeling.

    Poorly written plot?? And yet so many people come back to this story. And it's been voted in the top manga for the last month.

    No matter how good the art is, most people would drop a shitty plot line or jusr skip to the smut scenes but the plot draws people in

    MangaSanctuary September 29, 2023 1:02 pm
    I'm not gonna reply to everything but I will say this it's very obvious Dan is not just falling for Jaekyung for his looks. Despite his terrible attitude Jaekyung has helped Dan many times.He feels indebted, Pe... DominatrixSS

    No, I didn't say this one specifically is a poor written plot. I think that despite it being a very cliché plot, with a overused trope (Rich, big Seme x Poor, endebted Uke...), this definitely success to drow people in.
    I was telling Intentions and Motivation in a story, the way the issues are gonna be solved is important and gave you an exemple with Dan.
    If anything my position on Jinx is neutral, I don't like nor dislike it. I just find it cliché. BJ Alex was, in term of concept, more original.

    Yes I agree that JK has done a lot (in term of money) for mc and saved him, and JK is not the worst in term of ml, definitely. Though he's incridibly arrogant, self-centered and hurts mc. The fact that many readers react violently is understandable, they can be very invested despite disliking what they see; they can be here to call out the violence and say it's not okay... More so, if the treatment of such plot is poor. And they're doing it BECAUSE OF THE GREAT ART. They keep on reading because of the art.
    Semi-realistic art makes people more empathic towards a story.
    Trust me, if the art were not good, Jinx wouldn't gather so much readers. Dirty XX, for exemple, is pretty popular despite its "plot", thanks to the... art.

    Here is my opinion on why Jinx is so popular :
    Amazing art, hot ml, toxic ml new concept with the MMA Martial art, cute and adorable Uke, Provocative and controversial content (sexual assult, master-servant...), popular and simple trope of Rich x Poor...

    But this is pretty much the same recipe for other K yaois with similar contents and art style (Even if you don't love me, Limit Run, Instant Family, Cry me a River, Dirty XX...).

    josiah September 29, 2023 3:14 pm
    I would like the link for the stats of BL readers being mostly 14 year-old girls. Also, you're correct-- 14 year-old girls are smarter than they give them credit for Silent Lucidity

    not mature enough to tell the difference between right and wrong. this is not some story where the rape has a purpose. it’s just for views. and you should take it personally but ur obviously not ready for this conversation

    DominatrixSS September 29, 2023 3:47 pm
    not mature enough to tell the difference between right and wrong. this is not some story where the rape has a purpose. it’s just for views. and you should take it personally but ur obviously not ready for thi... josiah

    Does rape ever have purpose??
    I'm confused, could you please explain

    Silent Lucidity September 29, 2023 3:58 pm
    not mature enough to tell the difference between right and wrong. this is not some story where the rape has a purpose. it’s just for views. and you should take it personally but ur obviously not ready for thi... josiah

    Ok. Can I go now, mom?

    BelovedRose September 29, 2023 6:35 pm
    not mature enough to tell the difference between right and wrong. this is not some story where the rape has a purpose. it’s just for views. and you should take it personally but ur obviously not ready for thi... josiah

    Many of these 14 year old girls have been raped or survivors of sexual abuse. They know the difference between right and wrong. They know the difference between reality and fiction.
    It is obviously your fault you are not educated enough for this conversation or mature because you believe lies. You do know many rape survivors and SA survivors do read these stories because know they, these stories are ENTERTAINMENT and don’t represent REALITY!!

    https://www.mangago.me/home/mangatopic/14448911
    Read ^ that.
    - A rape survivor.

    Manhwaspicy September 29, 2023 9:27 pm
    So, it's okay as long as it's fiction, yaoi? LOLI think we know all here that's fiction, that's not really the point.THE PROBLEM IS THE POOR TREATMENT such plot get most of the time.How things will develop and ... MangaSanctuary

    “So, it's okay as long as it's fiction, yaoi?”

    Yes. It’s okay to have a plot like this in Yaoi fiction. Face it. As long as the book has the right audience and people know their preferences and interests. It is perfectly okay.

    Are you reading another version of Jinx? Who ever said Dan has feelings for Jk because he's hot or attractive? Knowing Dan’s personality, he doesn't even swing that way. Jk has done a lot for Dan, Dan admires JK’s passion for the championship and wants to be at the top. Jk has saved Dan many times. Although he abused Dan but his actions are something that can be forgiven. Face it.

    Because all that matters is Dan being happy at the end. The past can never be forgotten but it can be cured with good memories and healing. If Dan loves Jk and if Jk is willing to make up for all the things he did, then what's stopping the lovebirds from being together?

    You know everything that has happened so far is the plot right? What do you even understand by the plot?

    Jinx is unique. Mingwa is handling this story excellently well. It is mature and it talks a lot about the character's personality.