kinda dont like katou, he's a hypocrite

i might be alone on this one but ill just say this. i hated how it's owada always doing the most. also it's kinda hypocritical of katou to say "i dont know what you're thinking" and "you're deciding things one sidedly" when: he isn't sharing what he thinks and only does AFTER owada says sorry and spills his guts out himself; plus katou also assumes a lot of things and decides to end things himself (like leaving saying it's okay it's done it's over after assuming owada doesn't like him anymore or doesn't want anything to do with him) without asking owada what he was thinking. he's literally describing himself. as much as i like their dynamic itself, it's always owada that adjusts and i hate that imbalance in the relationship. owada might be an overthinker and assumes a lot of things but he's quick to take it back, apologize, and spill his thoughts out unlike katou who keeps it in only until the other party does something. he knows owada is insecure af but does nothing to reassure him and instead only gets angry ending up with owada apologizing agh.

he literally was hiding the fact that he was gonna let mimasaka train his ass wtf. owada being insecure about the way katou doesn't trust him unlike he does mimasaka is well founded cause why tf would you let your friend do that over your boyfriend? and the fact the mangaka glossed that over as if that's normal? wtf.

all the way through the manga, the mangaka made it seem like all the issues were caused by owada's insecurity but heck it's because of katou refusing to talk and deciding things by himself (both things he criticized owada for lol). i don't like it.

i believe i ranted something similar when i read this before but the feelings just reignited haha.