I agree with everything other than "fully respect"ing the hyung. I respect his decision to break it off, that was cool, but basically nulled by having sex with Homin knowing the situation.
I don’t really like how he whd sex with the uke but What I mean by fully respect is how he broke of their relationship and told the uke to understand what he is afraid of and how they can’t keep their relationship at that state. But aside from that I really wish he was my friend HIS SO FINEEE TOO
Yeah, this is about where I'm at too
its called a coping mechanism for trauma.
he doesn't know how to deal with it, and is CLEARLY in denial that the guy loves him. he's been running away from his trauma for years and coping with it through sex. have some understanding jesus christ he's not a cold-hearted person clearly.
But like didn’t the uke and seme gave sex and the seme confessed his feelings and yet his still in denial and decides to have sex with another dude and then complains that the seme was much more kinder at sex than the other guy. Like he leaves the seme to have sex with another guy and complains and yet his still in denial I mean someone has to make him realize the problem is him because his making it more difficult also he has trauma?? I thought the only reason he didn’t want to see the Seme was because he left him to go to the army yk?? If I’m wrong then I’m sorry but I still can’t forgive the Uke for being so dumb and trying to deny the Semes love even when he likes him too
its not him being dumb, hes clearly been struggling mentally. the whole point is that anxiety is irrational.
I guess that makes sense ╮(￣▽￣)╭ But I still don't like the way he acted my opinion won't change
i mean yeah neither do I, its more about understanding the behavior and being empathetic
Empathetic of what?! The trauma you're projecting on him that isn't mentioned in the story?! The story is that he's a coward, explicitly. He literally says he's scared...
Uke is a scum he thinks having sex will fix his problems and bullshit and his afraid of something like boy what are you afraid of being rejected by the man you like?? Don’t you realize the man you like LITERALLY CONFESSED TO YOUU?? So why the fuck do you go ahead and have sex with another guy?? Makes no fucking sense. I fully respect the guy The Uke went to have sex with because he called of their relationship they had and he even gave good reasons. I was expecting the complete opposite I was expecting him to try and steal the uke. But No and his really kind too, I love him