I mean the ex obviously still has feelings for the fl, so yeah, he can tell the guy to f... off, the ex wife doesn't. She is happily married and if they ended their relationship in a good note, why destroy that. Sad to say, marriages these days last even shorter than relationships. Putting it on paper does not change things.
But her insecurity from his ex wife is still valid even though she's remarried. Distancing himself and deleting his ex wife's number ain't also a big deal if they don't have anything to do with each other anymore so I don't know which part of doing that is destroying a relationship that has ended already. And about "putting it on paper does not change things" yes it does, being married is a big decision of both parties wanting to take the last step to become a family the mutual feelings was there and that is why fl is very insecure that that woman was and always be a part of ml's life. If you say that ml has the right to tell off with fl's ex then fl can do that too because it makes her uncomfortable too. And if you care and respect your partner you should consider their feelings what may it be. Your partner must become your first priority now and better not associate yourself with someone that would start misunderstadings in your relationship.
Most of the people are annoyed with the FL not because she felt insecure but because she jumped to assumptions too quick and went too long without communicating while simultaneously pushing ml away without proper explanation. The ml was always clear to the FL abt his problem with her ex, he talked to her and hence, expected her to do smth abt it because she never said she would mind dealing with it. The problem with how it was in the ml's ex case was he didn't know the FL had a problem with them greeting and when he did, he went ahead and solved it apologizing and coming clean. (Also meeting up to play together would make one more insecure than a passing greeting).
She hurt his feelings, he hurt her feelings. Doesn't feel fair that only one apologized.
No, MOSTof the comments are annoyed because she's insecure with just seeing ml greeting her wife. I don't know what you're talking about that only one apologized when fl already apologized on avoiding ml when ml arrived. ML apologized first on their new argument regarding the call and her being insecure about having his ex's wife on his contacts because he knew he's at fault where he lashed out on her denying she must detach with her ex (which she already did infront of him) and that she should finish it with no communication any longer (when in fact she did the ex called with her other friend's number) but he shrugs and still pushes her to finish it, ml calling the situation how miserable, and lastly sarcastically saying "I'm sorry my choice made you flawed" "Do as you wish, ms cha" which equates to concluding their argument as also pushing fl away. So clearly ml did a lot more damaged in that argument than fl where fl only voiced out her insecurities and admitted she was miserable, but he hit her with the 'okay im at fault, do whatever you want' statement.
Yo seeing ml being mad about a phone call and scolding her for not ending things like????? IMMA KICK THIS MANS ASS first of all he was there when they ended things. And for all those people saying nah he just greeted HIS EX WIFE and still has HER number on his phone no big deal the ex wife already remarried
I call bullshit on that. If he's gonna be mad about her with her ex bf, It ain't cool cause he should have initiated to detach himself from his ex wife when him and mc are still building the foundation of their current relationship which is on a shaky state. Also for the people who's disappointed he apologized first, clearly he REALIZED he was being a HYPOCRITE when he went off with her like that. Like he wanted her to end things and don't even meet the guy when he even has his EX WIFE's number on his phone???? Even though the ex wife is remarried the fact that they were MARRIED is more of a threat and more anxiety would be felt. Like they were literally a FAMILY even though there wasn't any child, it is recorded in their family registration, the law and all of the people who knew they were married. So I don't wanna hear belittling mc's insecurity and calling her annoying etc. People like those clearly haven't been in a relationship and it shows.