This story really wears me out. I thought it would has a somewhat logical story-line but n...

This story really wears me out. I thought it would has a somewhat logical story-line but nope. The beginning of the story was good and I thought more face-slapping would happen while the MC learns of this family history and gets to revenge his father and mother. But then his grandfather suddenly dies and he and his aunt leave with his aunt's lover (his foster father), and I was like... okay.. I don't know where this is going but I kind of like it, please don't mess it up. Now his foster father is dead and he learns that there are more people with a spirit like his (which is logical so I'm not complaining). But the world is getting bigger and bigger (I know, world-building and shit), which is good but... I don't know....
It feels like the author just tries to make the world bigger to create more conflict for the MC and make him stronger (which happens all the time in these martial arts manga/manhua/manhwa) but it just gets ridiculous, repetitive, predictable and boring. The villains are one-dimensional like always in these stories but they keep coming and coming and coming and coming and... you get it. I'm so tired...
One thing which irritated me the most is the harem theme in these martial arts manhwa/manhua/manga. The genre was not displayed and I thought this story didn't have any romance in it. But then I saw how he first gets together with the lady in purple, which I didn't mind, but she was suddenly forgotten (he left her with a promise and still hasn't come back), then he got together with the red lady and now maybe there are some more women who wants to throw themselves at him (or ''use him'')?
Why are women portrayed like that? Useless, replaceable damsel in distress? If they don't end up falling in love with the MC then they want to kill him (except for the aunt, but what can she do?). You have to be a guy to remain kind of relevant.

I know I'm rambling but you find these problem too often for my liking. Sure, these are just my preferences and other people have different tastes.
I tried reading this to the end (ch. 202) but couldn't and skipped many chapters to see where the story is heading.
Overall the beginning was good up until the MC banged the red chick and his foster father died. After that everything went downhill for me. The MC is likeable but it isn't enough for me and doesn't make the story enjoyable to read. Every fucking women wants to bang him, those whose who don't or try but fail, want to kill him. Everyone but the MC is useless, those who aren't get killed off anyway to not steal the MC's limelight.