Exactly !
finally, someone who has the same thoughts as me! I understand why the mc is acting that way because I can pretty much relate to him. Whenever people do an act of good will to me, for example a friend paid for my meal, it will make me feel like I owe a "debt" from them, that someday I have to pay them back for what they've done for me, which just gives me anxiety instead of being grateful. Like, what if this person suddenly turn their back on me and bring up all the good things they did for me? what am I gonna do then?
YES. Everyone is just blinded by reading a bl with hot scenes that they can’t even think from someone else’s pov. They just hate on min jiook so much because they want a perfect relationship, it’s so weird
Am I the only one who agrees with the uke’s choice not to accept the seme paying for his tuition? It’s not just a pride thing either, I’d feel extremely uncomfortable if this guy who sometimes has fits of anger tried to pay for something expensive and long term like a tuition just because he was interested in me. Not only would I feel as if there was constantly a “debt” I owed to him, but also what if he suddenly decides he no longer is interested/wants to pay for my tuition? Just the fear of that would give me more trouble than finding a job so that I don’t have to rely on the support of someone whom I argue with a lot. Just having large amounts of money involved offsets the power balance of a relationship to me. ╮(￣▽￣)╭