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Loserbish666 May 22, 2021 5:20 am

Ok this has nothing to do with this manga but my friend just came out as trans to me, I’ve already fucked up her pronouns so I just want to show I’m there for her and idk if I should be doing anything else, so if any of you guys have had a friend who’s gone through a transition or have yourself is there anything I can really do to just show her I’m there, I most likely already am but idk.

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    Blossompossom May 22, 2021 5:26 am

    You sound like such a sweet friend! I think all you can do is voice out your support to her if she’s ever insecure and be enthusiastic about her journey! It never hurts to ask questions and it shows her that you want to know more! Also always correct yourself and say sorry when you misgender her!

    Feitans whore May 22, 2021 8:01 am

    If you misgender them don’t be like “oh my gosh I’m a terrible friend I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to I’m so sad now ugh I hate myself blah blah I should km$“ You’re just victimizing yourself and making them feel bad. I know you feel terrible but just simply correct yourself. Don’t drag it out and make them apologize to you- I’m not trans myself but this is what I always see them say :)

    Mirre1 May 22, 2021 8:26 am

    I had a friend transition to male a year after I started knowing them.
    Just say you are proud of them and if you accidentally missgender or use their dead name just say sorry.
    Me and my friends corrected each other when refering to our trans friend

    Blaubeerchen27 May 22, 2021 9:15 am

    How would she even know that you misgendered her, pronouns like "he" or "she" aren't usually used when a person is present...?