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I don't wanna admit it but I'm kinda like the uke. Acting like it's all ok even if it's no...

Monkey May 20, 2021 6:55 am

I don't wanna admit it but I'm kinda like the uke. Acting like it's all ok even if it's not.
I don't know if it's normal but my boyfriend came over to my apartment where I also have a roomate. we were watching a movie which has a lot of sex scenes and I was not comfortable with it. So I said I don't wanna watch it and came to my room. I thought my boyfriend will do the same but instead he continued watching the movie with my roommate till the end which was very disgusting. I feel awkward watching sex scenes even with my sister but those two was something else.. after that I said let's break up, my standards are too high for this shit.. but he said he's sorry again and again so I gave him a chance.. now I don't like him at all and we're in a rut. Am I wrong to behave like this?

Responses
    rae May 20, 2021 6:58 am

    no. break up with him. if he doesnt respect your boundaries he doesn't deserve you.

    hellohello May 20, 2021 10:42 pm

    nah not at all. he should’ve respected your choice and what you wanted and he should’ve came with you and not continued to watch it or even ask if you’re okay. don’t go back to him he doesn’t deserve you

    Monkey May 21, 2021 3:38 am

    Yea. I'm dumping his ass for good.

    hellohello May 21, 2021 4:09 am
    Yea. I'm dumping his ass for good. Monkey

    YESSSSSSSSS

    hope world ^ ♡ ^ May 22, 2021 3:04 pm
    Yea. I'm dumping his ass for good. Monkey

    Yeah. I mean that just gave me goosebumps. He should respect tour boundaries

    Rini May 22, 2021 10:41 pm

    To me, it doesn't seem like he disrespected your boundaries because, according to your story, you said YOU didn't want to watch the movie. You didn't ask if it were okay that the both of you stopped watching it. He didn't force you to stay and finish the movie either. However, you left and you were obviously bothered by the film, and he didn't accompany you in your room. That seems like he didn't care that you just up and left so, I feel like that was the real problem. Either way, leave him since you already lost interest. You know what you want and don't want in a person sooo yeah.

    Hanabi May 23, 2021 8:44 am
    To me, it doesn't seem like he disrespected your boundaries because, according to your story, you said YOU didn't want to watch the movie. You didn't ask if it were okay that the both of you stopped watching it... Rini

    Yea , people are different. Maybe Some people don't find it awkward watching sex scenes with girlfriends roomate or other female friends, maybe it's normal for them. And this is what I said when we broke up. I also said we are very different and I don't love you enough to compensate and act like everythings ok when clearly it really bothers me.. anyways we broke up. I'm happy.(▰˘◡˘▰)