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Dont forget that most yaoi authors arent professinals or guys they dont know how a homosexual relationship develops. And cant portray it. This is why its used so much. If you would like to read a yaoi written by a guy read "down and dirty". It has yaoi elements but shows the affectionate side of relation ship.
i wonder if the ppl who say im traumatized in the comments have read anything beside slice of life mangas? literaly this wasnt even bad. no forcing, no abuse. just sex