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TW: RAPE

dumbass, but cultured dumbass February 15, 2021 8:32 am

there’s no rape tag because it’s pretty new i assume but even so i feel like i should try and put a warning or something. It happens in chapter 4 between the main character and his love interest who he ends up dating.

Responses
    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 9:06 am

    It didnt happen. And if you call that rape it would be an insult to everyone who has been raped. It could count as sexual harrassment tho.

    Hanimoon February 15, 2021 9:30 am

    Well that was forced sex but still wrong...

    dumbass, but cultured dumbass February 15, 2021 9:40 am
    It didnt happen. And if you call that rape it would be an insult to everyone who has been raped. It could count as sexual harrassment tho. Sowhat1999

    i thought rape was defined as “penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” and sexual harassment was sexual coercion and unwanted sexual attention. And in ch.4 he both said “no” and “stop...” and thought “i’m scared” i get that he might’ve just wanted to stop and talk before doing it but the other guy had no way of knowing that and at the end even thought to himself “he doesn’t even want to do this” after coming back to his senses. If i’m wrong please educate me if you’re willing to, but as of now i don’t understand how it isn’t rape.


    link: https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/whats-the-difference-between-sexual-abuse-sexual-assault-sexual-harassment-and-rape-88218

    https://www.ojp.gov/library/abstracts/what-difference-between-rape-and-sexual-assault

    dumbass, but cultured dumbass February 15, 2021 9:45 am
    Well that was forced sex but still wrong... Hanimoon

    isn’t rape forced sex though? Like rape can occur within a couple or people who like each other since having a relationship doesn’t necessarily give you consent just because the two parties have a romantic relationship?

    dumbass, but cultured dumbass February 15, 2021 9:48 am
    isn’t rape forced sex though? Like rape can occur within a couple or people who like each other since having a relationship doesn’t necessarily give you consent just because the two parties have a romantic ... dumbass, but cultured dumbass

    and in the first link i gave above it says “ The FBI definition says nothing about the relationship between the victim and the perpetrator and it says nothing about force. It does, however, say something about consent, or rather, the lack of it.”

    Robbot February 15, 2021 10:44 am

    Yeah, there are a lot of people on this website who don't know what rape is and will defend it with everything they've got.
    Thank you for the warning, that scene was definitely rape and it was uncomfortable.

    Cute manga otherwise

    Bassy February 15, 2021 10:51 am
    It didnt happen. And if you call that rape it would be an insult to everyone who has been raped. It could count as sexual harrassment tho. Sowhat1999

    Coming from the victom, your comment is actually the real insult.

    hisokasasscrack February 15, 2021 11:11 am
    It didnt happen. And if you call that rape it would be an insult to everyone who has been raped. It could count as sexual harrassment tho. Sowhat1999

    Girl that was rape what are u on....

    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 1:33 pm
    Well that was forced sex but still wrong... Hanimoon

    Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuak penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy

    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 1:34 pm
    i thought rape was defined as “penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.�... dumbass, but cultured dumbass

    Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuak penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy


    And I am really thankful for your answer. Since it is a misunderstanding I didnt need all the info. But If I did, it would have helped me very much understandinh the topic!

    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 1:40 pm
    Yeah, there are a lot of people on this website who don't know what rape is and will defend it with everything they've got. Thank you for the warning, that scene was definitely rape and it was uncomfortable.Cut... Robbot

    Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuall penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy

    And no I dont defend rape. I am just tired with people calling sexual abuse (can be rape; but isnt always rape) rape. But rape is sexual abuse. Sexual abuse can be kissing, touching and stuff but for it to be actual rape there has to be penetration.

    The insuries are just on another level and cant be compared. When I was raped, I couldnt shit properly for a whole year bc of the injuries that the penetration caused. BUT the trauma can be the same even if there was no penetration. And even if someone was "just" touched it should be taken seriously and it can haunt them for their whole life!

    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 1:41 pm
    Coming from the victom, your comment is actually the real insult. Bassy

    Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuall penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy

    And no I dont defend rape. I am just tired with people calling sexual abuse (can be rape; but isnt always rape) rape. But rape is sexual abuse. Sexual abuse can be kissing, touching and stuff but for it to be actual rape there has to be penetration.

    The insuries are just on another level and cant be compared. When I was raped, I couldnt shit properly for a whole year bc of the injuries that the penetration caused. BUT the trauma can be the same even if there was no penetration. And even if someone was "just" touched it should be taken seriously and it can haunt them for their whole life!

    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 1:41 pm
    Girl that was rape what are u on.... hisokasasscrack

    Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuall penetration bc I thought that didnt happen. I probably read it really sloppy

    And no I dont defend rape. I am just tired with people calling sexual abuse (can be rape; but isnt always rape) rape. But rape is sexual abuse. Sexual abuse can be kissing, touching and stuff but for it to be actual rape there has to be penetration.

    The insuries are just on another level and cant be compared. When I was raped, I couldnt shit properly for a whole year bc of the injuries that the penetration caused. BUT the trauma can be the same even if there was no penetration. And even if someone was "just" touched it should be taken seriously and it can haunt them for their whole life!

    dumbass, but cultured dumbass February 15, 2021 7:26 pm
    Oh, I thought they just kissed. I didnt catch that they actually had sex. I thought there was no penetration...my bad. I called the kissinh sexual harrassement not the actuak penetration bc I thought that didnt... Sowhat1999

    I’m sorry if i made you uncomfortable or anything i’ve personally never been through that and wanted to know if my idea of the topic was warped or wrong. I hope i didn’t come off as aggressive i was just genuinely confused. Thank you so much for responding i really appreciate it :)

    Sowhat1999 February 15, 2021 9:35 pm
    I’m sorry if i made you uncomfortable or anything i’ve personally never been through that and wanted to know if my idea of the topic was warped or wrong. I hope i didn’t come off as aggressive i was just ... dumbass, but cultured dumbass

    I reread that chapter and it was ofcourse rape. When I read it the first time, I just flew over the panels because I dont care for sex scenes that much and didnt catch the rape. And you have no reason to apologize because I commented some bs because bc of somethink that I thought and didnt know correctly. You are an awesome person. Keep going!!